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Thanatos
2005-05-16, 09:35 PM
I don't want to come off as a whiny bitch, but I can't talk about this with anyone in real life because of reasons you will soon find out.

I got a job at Taco Bell about three months ago. There is a girl there that is the coolest girl I've ever known plus she's also really hot. I'm 17. She's 20. She has a boyfriend, who also works at Taco Bell, who is 25. There was a rumor started at work that she and I liked each other. He got all mad and said he was going to make my life "a living hell at Taco Bell and make me want to quit." At the time I didn't like her but it has only progressed since then. I like her a shitload now. She also likes me as I found out today.

We had become really good friends and we ended up exchanging cell phone numbers. We texted each other a lot and today I hung out with her. Apparently, last night she had a dream that we kissed and she said that she was hoping to reenact her dream at some point today and I just put two and two together and we ended up making out not 30 minutes ago. Now, if her boyfriend found out about this I can kiss my sorry ass goodbye. He's 8 years older than me and he's bigger. I'm going to start working out again, not just for this specific reason, I've been meaning to for a while now.

She has been debating on whether or not to break up with him for a month now and I came along and, to her, all signs lead to breakup. He's a big jackass, but if I was in his shoes and some punk kid made out with my girlfriend I'd be pissed off. Any advice?

Penny_Bags
2005-05-16, 09:39 PM
Tuck your dick in between your legs and run away, and make sure to lie a lot. You are fucked if this guy is seriously mad and/or has anger issues. If he wouldn't do anything ignorant, than don't be afraid.

Thanatos
2005-05-16, 09:40 PM
Oh, I forgot to mention that fact that he's bi-polar, manic depressent, skitzo, and about every other mental problems.

RoboticSilence
2005-05-16, 09:59 PM
Learn a martial art.

Penny_Bags
2005-05-16, 10:00 PM
Oh, I forgot to mention that fact that he's bi-polar, manic depressent, skitzo, and about every other mental problems.

KEEP YOUR DICK IN YOUR PANTS. Jeez dude. He's got that many issues?

!King_Amazon!
2005-05-16, 10:40 PM
Any advice?

Smoka tha pot. The answer will come to you my son.

JRwakebord
2005-05-16, 10:50 PM
Oh, I forgot to mention that fact that he's bi-polar, manic depressent, skitzo, and about every other mental problems.

Back off. It's not worth it unless you're packing heat.

Sovereign
2005-05-17, 12:27 AM
Wait until they break up on their own. Do NOT influence it.

Remember when your gf broke up with you? Wasn't it because she found god or something? That's exactly how this guy would feel. And that's not even taking in to consideration his mental disorders. Fuck, I'm on medication for manic depression (same thing as bi-polar) and If I heard that my gf (again, if i had one) dumped me for another guy who she had feeligns for while we were in our relationship, id get insainly depresssed then break out into a blind rage. Mind you this is with the meds, if hes not medicated, AND skitzo and all that other shit, it could possibly destroy his mental stability. Manic depressive peopel aren't always in control of what they do. They act on impulse. He could very well try to go after you.

If this guy is a huge asshole as you say, then the relationship will eventually end on its own. No intervention is needed. Just stay friends with her for now. Very good friends. Just lay off the making out or fucking till her bf is out of her life.

Mantralord
2005-05-17, 03:24 AM
I don't want to come off as a whiny bitch, but I can't talk about this with anyone in real life because of reasons you will soon find out.

I got a job at Taco Bell about three months ago. There is a girl there that is the coolest girl I've ever known plus she's also really hot. I'm 17. She's 20. She has a boyfriend, who also works at Taco Bell, who is 25. There was a rumor started at work that she and I liked each other. He got all mad and said he was going to make my life "a living hell at Taco Bell and make me want to quit." At the time I didn't like her but it has only progressed since then. I like her a shitload now. She also likes me as I found out today.

We had become really good friends and we ended up exchanging cell phone numbers. We texted each other a lot and today I hung out with her. Apparently, last night she had a dream that we kissed and she said that she was hoping to reenact her dream at some point today and I just put two and two together and we ended up making out not 30 minutes ago. Now, if her boyfriend found out about this I can kiss my sorry ass goodbye. He's 8 years older than me and he's bigger. I'm going to start working out again, not just for this specific reason, I've been meaning to for a while now.

She has been debating on whether or not to break up with him for a month now and I came along and, to her, all signs lead to breakup. He's a big jackass, but if I was in his shoes and some punk kid made out with my girlfriend I'd be pissed off. Any advice?

Get a gun. No one says you have to fight 'fair'.

But really, you don't want someone who would leave their own partner for you.

Kaneda
2005-05-17, 06:45 AM
Well. You are 17, so by law he can't hurt you. But that doesnt mean he won't. Also most of the time guys are all talk but if you feel he is an action kinda guy then I'd suggest atleast taking some weapon to work w/ you in the car. A bat or whatever. Besides that I'd say hit that shit. I've had girls cheat on b/f's w/ me before, and the boyfriends really get pissed but none of them have ever actually fought me, although the little one tried to get his friend to... :rolleyes: pff.

DaFrigginDoctah
2005-05-17, 11:28 AM
If I was him I wouldn't make you want to quit The Famous Taco Bell, I'd make you want to die.

If she really wanted to kiss you, you should of told her to break up with him first, if you were worried about getting your ass beat / morality issues.

But I probably would of forked her too, if I were you.

Penny_Bags
2005-05-17, 01:53 PM
He didn't "fork" anyone yet.

sue_13
2005-05-17, 09:18 PM
i think sov knows what he is talking about this time

Thanatos
2005-05-17, 09:51 PM
After reading everyone's posts (especially Sov's): fuck!

Alright. She's for sure going to break up with him. It will be soon. I had nothing to do with them breaking up and I specifically told her I didn't want to be that reason. She was going to break up with him anyways when I stumbled along. I guess I just kind of made it speed up..

The thing is, nobody knows that we kissed/made out. People at work can tell that we like each other (fuck) and some people have questioned me about it. I'm pretty sure that once they break up we'll start a relationship and I'm pretty sure that we're all gonna still work at Taco Bell. I have no fucking clue how this is going to play out but it should be really interesting. I don't want to bring a weapon because if I did that shit I would have so many people come after me and he WOULD kill me once he recovered. Why do girls have to be so damn wonderful?

Smoka tha pot. The answer will come to you my son.

Haha, I always am thinking about the predicament I'm in when I'm high. I swear, that's all I do now.

Demosthenes
2005-05-17, 10:13 PM
Like everyone else has said, it's probably best to avoid being entangled in these imbroglios, and her boyfriend does sound like a potential threat, but you have to decide how much you like this girl. Is she worth it? If so, then it doesn't matter what her current boyfriend thinks. The only thing that matters is that you two both like eachother, and could possibly become passionate about eachother. That's the only thing. The way I see it is you have to keep your eyes on the prize. Her boyfriend is just an obstacle.

On the other hand, I can understand her boyfriend's situation as well. If a random guy was making out with my girlfriend, I would be infuriated; and I could safely say that if this guy and I were ever to meet, there's a possibility that the encounter may be detrimental to his physical health -- not something I'd do on purpose, but when you're enraged, as you would be if you were to meet the guy kissing your girlfriend, things happen when you don't mean to, and though I don't know too much in-depth about these mental disorders, I will assume that these disorders can make it even worse for you. I would probably be a little perplexed with the whole situation. The only thing I can suggest is getting to know this guy better -- not through concordant friendship, but by whatever underhanded information you can dig up about this guy. From reading other people's posts, it seems like this guy could possibly come after your life. Once again, is this girl worth it? If so, I would also suggest carrying a weapon. He may come back harder, but he may leave you alone.

Now, I'm certainly not advocating a violent confrontation, but it seems to be a possibility. If at all possible, see if you can tactfully talk your way out of it. It may be a good idea to let her simply break it off, but then again, that could take a while, and he may figure that you're the reason anyway, and come after you, or go after the girl. Really, it all boils down to one question: Is she worth the trouble? If so, go for it, and improvise from there. I would suggest being ready for the worst, though, just for keeping safe.

Ganga
2005-05-18, 02:10 AM
Get the girl, quit the job, get a better job.

Thanatos
2005-05-18, 06:07 AM
Yes. She is so worth it. Me and her are so perfect for each other. She says she's never been happy and I'm the only guy that makes her feel that way.

BLIMEY! Meh, I guess I'm going to borrow a knife from my friend.

Doofus_AW
2005-05-18, 09:06 AM
Get the girl, quit the job, get a better job.

If you are qualified to work at Taco Bell you can work at any restaraunt in the area. handle that part first and let the rest just happen.

DaFrigginDoctah
2005-05-18, 09:04 PM
A lot of them say that in the beginning.




You work at Taco Bell anyway.

Titusfied
2005-05-18, 09:27 PM
I've alwasy been sketchy about chicks like this to be quite honest. If she has a boyfriend and is making out with another guy (you), what makes you think she won't do the same to you, if you guys do happen to get together? Once a hoe, always a hoe in my book.

Honestly, I wouldn't worry about that dude until you turn 18. Like Kaneda said, it's a pretty damn big offense if he does fight you. I'm 23, and I would never do something so damn stupid (Then again, I'm also not gonna be working at Taco Bell in 2 years either, but that's beside the point...).

Either way, fuck that dude, if you and this chick has mutual feelings, you should act on them.

undeadzombieguy
2005-05-19, 02:34 AM
Agreed. Just dont bring any weapons. Things could get out of control and you will be the one getting fucked because you were the one with the weapon.

Thanatos
2005-05-19, 06:11 AM
To update you all that give a shit: we've decided to be good friends until she can get her relationship with her boyfriend sorted out. She still doesn't know what she wants to do. I'm not going to wait around for her either. If another opportunity presents itself to me then I'm all over that shit.

Penny_Bags
2005-05-19, 09:41 PM
My ex girlfriend.... got back with her boyfriend who she broke up with to be with me. That's how our relationship ended. Now he's going to college and I can tap that all day long.

Jamesadin
2005-05-23, 01:11 PM
Yeah man. It looks like everything is sorting itself out... sort of... The only think I would be worried about is if her boyfriend takes it badly, and she goes directly from him to you.. he might get some ideas in his head and he wont like it. Once she breaks up with him, have some time in between when you join up with her as a buffer to let things to cool down.

Kaneda
2005-05-23, 02:06 PM
Ya you could do that and be safe but then again, they're broken up and anything she does is absolutely none of his business anymore. Unless it has to do w/ him, which it doesn't.

undeadzombieguy
2005-05-23, 02:11 PM
Altough thats true, problem is that he will probably not see it that way.

slaynish
2005-05-23, 02:35 PM
I dunno about all this but serously I have gotten pretty close to fingering lauren and we have made out but thats besides the point. Anyways, if any guy touched her the way I do while we are going out then id be pretty pissed and im only 13. But, im not an asshole really, and my friend Garrett had a dream about him cheating on his gf for lauren, and i told her about it and wondered if it could ever come true and she said "not in this lifetime", but anyways back to your case, I think you should do exactly what sov says lol ^_^

LiveWire
2005-05-24, 06:14 AM
Titus has a good point, I think you should just stay friends and keep it at that.

D3V
2005-05-24, 06:33 AM
Calll Lex and Terry ... 1-800-do-us

Kaneda
2005-05-24, 09:31 AM
Hahaha. Nic3 nice. Whatever you do don't tell her about the dreams you have about her friends. Girls hate that...even though its a dream. Stupid girls