Well.. I feel shitty again.

[Thanatos]

Ok, this time it's fucking over. Jacqui(my girlfriend for 11 months) has just broke up with me. The first time we broke up, it was mutual and we realized just how stupid it was. So, we got back together. Remember, the first time dealt with religion.

Now, last night I'm at a friend's house playing some Halo/doing homework. She calls my cellphone and asks me to come over because she needs to talk to me. Automatically, I backtrack and think of what I could have done wrong this time. She then tells me that it's not me and that it's her. I'm like.. Wut teh fukc?

Anyway, I go over and we are standing outside talking. She says, "First, I realize it was wrong of me to try and change you to be more religious. I honestly realize that and I'm sorry." I say, "Is that the only thing you wanted to talk about? If that's the case, then we're ok.. right?"

She says, "Well, I went to church this morning and actually had a 1on1 talk with God. He told me that sometimes I have been putting you(me) in front of Him and that is wrong. Sometimes I have loved you more than Him. Even if it was for a second. I know that that is wrong and I have to break up with you for that."

Me: "Are you fucking serious? You're willing to throw away 11 months because of that bullshit excuse?"
Her: "It's what I believe in!"
Me: "Fuck that. It soudns like a cult. You can't love anyone in fear of loving that person more than God even if it is only a second."
Her: "I'm sorry. I still love you, want to marry you, and want to have kids with you some day."
Me: "Bullshit! That's a lie! If you honestly believed all that stuff you just said you would never break up with me."
Her: "I just need some time to think things through. I still love you."
Me: "I'm not going to wait on you. I'm going to move on. I don't want to see you for the rest of my life. Get the fuck out of it and quit playing these bullshit mind games with me."

So, I left her house, and proceeded home. I tore up every picture we had together, smashed a picture frame causing glass to fly everywhere in my room and my hand to bleed profusely. I'm fucking fed up. That is one of the shadiest reasons to break up with someone. She said she'll still love me and want to be with me and I really don't want to believe that. After I got home, I called the hot, stoner girl that I work with and we've got a date set up on Saturday. Rebound girl, baby!

[slaynish]

KEKE.

That bible-humper girl got PWNT. GG You pwnt her.

[platnum]

I don't know if the yelling was all that necessary, but I prolly would have said the same things. What religion is she?

[tokill.ace]

Congrats Thantos of winning but sorry about losing your girlfriend.

[platnum]

Umm, he didn't really win. Idiot.

[tokill.ace]

Winning the fight dumbass.

[slaynish]

Losers, Losers, stop the fighting -.-

[Demosthenes]

You don't win the fight during a break up.

[Sovereign]

Wow... I honestly think shes delusional..

But I'm terribly sorry to hear this. Want me to take down the pics of you and her in the zel members pic thread?

[Vollstrecker]

Everyone loses, in my opinion.

That sucks man, I'm sorry that it didn't work out...

[Shining Knights]

It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

[‡AC‡]

Well, time to submit a new member picture.

[uncapped]

No offense man, but that's one nutty girlfriend. Like, a nun in the making.

That's really fucked up shit. Sorry to hear it.

[Slim]

Sorry to hear it, but if that's the way she really acts, it's better you got the fuck out of there. Good luck, and light em up with stoner chick. ;)

[Penny_Bags]

Fuck pooper

[Thanatos]

Yes, I would like you to take down those pictures, Sov. I'll take some more recent ones and upload them. Anyway, Shinto, I don't want to say those things to her because I'm still furious. I don't want to even see her, which is kinda hard considering I sit right behind her in 1st period.

I just don't fucking understand. She loves me yet breaks up with me. I'm being punished because she isn't right with God right now.

I even asked her what's gonna happen if she gets married. What happens when she says "I do" and then realizes that she loves her husband over God a little bit more for that moment. Is she gonna have to get a divorce or what? Yeah, I'm a smartass when I'm pissed off.

I also asked her if she's going to have kids. She said yes. But I responded with, "How is that gonna work out? You're making a baby with the person you love. That's a big step and that's gonna take time out from God! What if he asks you to become celibate and never experience the joy of having kids?" She says, "If that's what he wants me to do, then I'll do it."

I fucking hate this.

[Demosthenes]

There's religious people, and then there's maniacal. I'm fine with the religious people, but she sounds like she fits in with maniacal group. There's a fine line between being religious, and being unreasonable. To me, she's being unreasonable.

[Titusfied]

Dude.. What the fuck.. Honestly, I don't know what to tell you. That is some of the craziest shit I've heard to cause a break-up.. :(

I'm not going to talk bad on her, but that reason just doesn't add up to me.. I would have reacted the same way. Sorry though. :(

[Mydogisyourdog]

there is nothing to win or lose when two people break up. It sucks on both ends...unless one is a completely heartless SOB.

I have never met someone that religious so i have no advice for you man... the only thing i can say is that there are more fish in the sea. It sucks for a couple weeks, but life goes on.

11 months... thats a really long time. Sorry bro.

[Sovereign]

What I don't understand is her reasoning. She says shes putting you in front of god, which means that shes loved you VERY VERY much. It sounds like she's saying that she broke up with you because she loved you too much, which makes no sence at all. Idk. Something's a little to weird about this. Noone, after an 11 month relationship, just all of a sudden deciedes to end it because of too much love...

[Mydogisyourdog]

What I don't understand is her reasoning. She says shes putting you in front of god, which means that shes loved you VERY VERY much. It sounds like she's saying that she broke up with you because she loved you too much, which makes no sence at all. Idk. Something's a little to weird about this. Noone, after an 11 month relationship, just all of a sudden deciedes to end it because of too much love...

you are right. Im guessing there was some kind of pressure from somewhere else. Her parents like you? Usually hardcore Religious people dont like "non-conservatives".

[Thanatos]

No no, there is no other reason. I'm sure of it. We've had many problems in the past but worked them out and it made us even stronger. Her mom and I were really cool together and I'm the only boyfriend she has had that her dad has even held a conversation with. We had a bunch of inside jokes and shit, we were all on friendly terms. I know it wasn't another guy because she would never do that to me. I know that she loves/loved me VERY VERY much and I know she still does at this very moment.

That is the one and only reason that she would even consider breaking up with me over. Oh well, I guess I've already moved on a little considering I have a date Saturday night. It's still really hard, though. I miss her like crazy. :(

[Mydogisyourdog]

break-ups always are. dont neglect your date on Sat or you might not get another shot with her ;) ... go out and have fuckin good ass time.

[Sovereign]

Is this the stoner girl? If so, get stoned, go out and have a fuckin good ass time.

[Titusfied]

In my opinion, that date is a little pre-emptive... Should have waited a little.. Everyone is different though..

[Mydogisyourdog]

In my opinion, that date is a little pre-emptive... Should have waited a little.. Everyone is different though..

yeah i thought the same thing, thats why i advised to pay a lot of attention to her and whatever you do, for God's sakes do not blab on about your ex. Your probably know, but DONT DO IT! :)

[Raziel]

Seriously, Thanatos, you need to hold off on that stoner chick. Not as much for your sake, but more for hers. You've already identified her as a "rebound chick" and that's automatically going to skew your impression of your time with her. She'll become little more than your instrument of revenge, and that's not a very kind thing to make someone into. I know that you're not a bad guy, but you're starting down a path that could lead to you doing bad things. In the end, this stoner chick is most likely going to end up getting hurt and your ex is going to end up getting hurt as well. What kind of toll do you think that will take on your conscience? Is it really worth it?

I'm not trying to lecture you, but I genuinely think it's a bad idea to go jumping into another girl so quickly after such a nasty event. It will negatively taint your experiences with her and it will end up damaging the both of you. I've done it before, and I can attest to how miserable an experience it can be. Please, for your own peace of mind, think this through a little more carefully. You might not care if you hurt yourself during this process, but do you really want to drag someone else into your misery as well?

[Thanatos]

I've thought a lot about my whole situation today. We have first period together and didn't say a word.. I haven't talked to her since the break up. I feel like a total ass. I said some things Sunday night that I'll never be able to forget. I was so fucking mean to her and I feel horrible about it. I realize now that I should have never called the stoner chick so quick. We're supposed to go out Saturday night on a date, but I'm going to call her in a few and invite her to a party on Saturday. So, it's really not a date because there will be a lot of people, but I still feel guilty.

Anyway, I tried calling her cell after school today numerous times. She doesn't pick up and she isn't home. I donno what to do. Bleh, I'm real confused. Love shouldn't be this hard.

[timmay1113]

It is funny how love is so ironic. The thing that comes the easiest to us is also the most complicated thing in our lives....

[Demosthenes]

most complicated thing in my life is how the fuck the usa could win a fuckin bronze. fuck girls...like i said in my earlier thread.

[!King_Amazon!]

Tell her if she wants to be such a puritan she can make you some fucking dinner.

Then squeese out a bunch of kids, be silent, work around the house all day, have no rights, be submisive to you in bed, and eventually get accused of being a witch and hung.

Then you just eat the kids and hook up with stoner girl. You win!







In all seriousness that fucking sucks. If she doesn't love her so called God as much as she says she should, that's her own fault, she shouldn't hurt you because of her silly religion. I'm sorry for ya man.

[HandOfHeaven]

That is a fucking horrible excuse to break up with you. I believe in God, but for fucksake to a certain extent. I believe your ex may need some help, because it is sounding more and more like she is in a cult. Holy shit, I would hate her guts so much....

[Demosthenes]

u guys know that if this was 200 yrs earlier that jizmo's gf would be the only sane one out of us...most of us would be the ultimate sinners...lol.

[Shining Knights]

It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

[Thanatos]

I just read the chapter and I'm sort of confused. I'm not really good at interpreting what the Bible has to say. I'm going to IM that guy when he logs on. Thanks for your help, Shinto.