View Full Version : Girl's process of thinking.
Thanatos
2004-05-10, 06:55 PM
Listen to this.
I'm at the mall with a couple of my friend's paying off my tux for Prom. After that I go to this store called Spencer's Gifts. They've got a lot of funny ass shirts and perverted crap. Anyway, I bought an earring that had 69 in the stud.
I go over to my girlfriend's house after I get back to spend some time before the weekend is over. She sees the earring and freaks out. She said, "Now everyone is going to call me a slut!"
I'm like, "teh fux?" She says, "You bought an earring that has 69 in it, and because I'm your girlfriend people are going to think we have sex all the time and people will call me a whore and/or slut!"
...Ok? I'm keeping it but I won't wear it all the time. Anybody else have any experiences like this they're willing to share?
Ganga
2004-05-10, 07:01 PM
Well, my girlfriend told me that girls almost or rarely cum -_-!!!!
Shining Knights
2004-05-10, 07:03 PM
It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.
Ganga
2004-05-10, 07:05 PM
what? you reply to my post?
Shining Knights
2004-05-10, 07:06 PM
It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.
Thanatos
2004-05-10, 07:15 PM
Nah, she's not trying to control me. She's never done anything like that nor is she going to start. That's really what she thinks.
Shining Knights
2004-05-10, 07:47 PM
It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.
badboy
2004-05-10, 08:42 PM
Well if she is hot she can probably get someone better so, you better tap that ass.
HandOfHeaven
2004-05-10, 09:24 PM
I really hate when you don't even do anything remotely related to them and they get pissed at ya. It is soo gay.
Sovereign
2004-05-10, 09:30 PM
What also seems to be the case, in my school at least, is that girls with boyfriends tend to be really selfish. They think that the guy is gonna automatically cheat on her if hes with another girl at ALL. One of my friends gf is like this. She wont let him hang out with ANY other females. I hate that whore.
I think maybe she's being a little paranoid, but if the earring makes her feel bad or uncomfortable maybe it's best to not wear it around her. It's not a totally insane request. However, if she gets weird or overprotective about other things and it interferes with your normal interests or social life you have a problem. But I wouldn't sweat it about an earring.
I feel ya, hot girls want to get guys that don't show interest... its a game they have to win
Ganga
2004-05-10, 10:25 PM
I actucally like it when girl in control, it gives you challenge, if you ontop of your girl on everything... you will cheat on her, cuz you get bord of her so quickly.
That's what's happening to my girl, first it feel so good to get her, I do everything, take her out, wait for her. I feel good actually after I done those stuff... now she listen to me on everything... I get so bord of her now, I almost even get tire of having sex with her, that's how bad it is.
Shining Knights
2004-05-11, 04:29 AM
It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.
Thanatos
2004-05-11, 02:10 PM
I agree with that. Me and my girlfriend will have something to look foward to when we get married(sex, of course).
No, girls are all the same. Trust me, dont let them tell you other wize. Emotionally, they're the same. Inability, personality, the way they act, they are not the same. Its a big lesson to learn on your own, as I have... A hot, fine girl is checking me out in school, and I ignore her, and I bet everyday I dont go up to her, or say hi, or something, makes her try harder, and harder to get me. Its funny. :P
Then maybe my girl is different because she's not at all like that. :P
!King_Amazon!
2004-05-11, 02:53 PM
Listen to this.
I'm at the mall with a couple of my friend's paying off my tux for Prom. After that I go to this store called Spencer's Gifts. They've got a lot of funny ass shirts and perverted crap. Anyway, I bought an earring that had 69 in the stud.
I go over to my girlfriend's house after I get back to spend some time before the weekend is over. She sees the earring and freaks out. She said, "Now everyone is going to call me a slut!"
I'm like, "teh fux?" She says, "You bought an earring that has 69 in it, and because I'm your girlfriend people are going to think we have sex all the time and people will call me a whore and/or slut!"
...Ok? I'm keeping it but I won't wear it all the time. Anybody else have any experiences like this they're willing to share?
These things will happen. Girls will be girls. She doesn't want her reputation to be ruined.
!King_Amazon!
2004-05-11, 02:55 PM
Well, my girlfriend told me that girls almost or rarely cum -_-!!!!
Sadly that's true, but it's usually because they have bad lovers. Guys think of sex as more of a physical thing than a mental thing, and women are the exact oposite. You've gotta tell her you think she's sexy and talk to her during sex and yada yada, not just try to get your jollies off.
!King_Amazon!
2004-05-11, 02:57 PM
dude....dont care. shes just seeing if she can control you, and so far she has. Dont let women contorl you, when they do that its a death wish of mind games. let them know whos the male.
What the fuck do you mean by "let her know who's the male"? Neither one of them should be controlling each other. Don't stereotype women just because you've had bad experiences, they don't all try to control you, my girlfriend NEVER tries to control me, and I don't try to control her. Going on 3 years now.
!King_Amazon!
2004-05-11, 02:59 PM
No, girls are all the same. Trust me, dont let them tell you other wize. Emotionally, they're the same. Inability, personality, the way they act, they are not the same. Its a big lesson to learn on your own, as I have... A hot, fine girl is checking me out in school, and I ignore her, and I bet everyday I dont go up to her, or say hi, or something, makes her try harder, and harder to get me. Its funny. :P
That attitude is what is keeping you from having good relationships. If you go into a relationship "knowing" that she's going to control you and be evil and all, it's not going to work out.
!King_Amazon!
2004-05-11, 03:01 PM
I agree with that. Me and my girlfriend will have something to look foward to when we get married(sex, of course).
Then maybe my girl is different because she's not at all like that. :P
I'm guessing the same thing, my girl is nothing like shinto seems to think all girls are like.
There's nothing wrong with keeping up the pace as long as both partners are OK with it, if you get bored then the relationship isn't going to work out anyway, that's what marriage is all about.
Chruser
2004-05-11, 03:23 PM
Ugh, I'm going to get aneurisms from the generalizations in this thread. If you think all girls are so predictable and similar, then that's your own problem. They're not. There are plenty of exceptions to that "rule", and I sincerely doubt it's only nationality-related.
Shining Knights
2004-05-11, 05:33 PM
It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.
That's why you have to go for the smarter girls, Shinto. The average joes ARE really similar.
The intelligent ones are psychotic. It's more fun!
Shining Knights
2004-05-11, 06:06 PM
It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.
All men are pigs and/or manwhores. They have no standards and don't care about the emotional welfare of their significant other. They are motivated by teh sexx0rz.
Is this true of some, maybe a majority of men? Yeah. Is it true of all guys? Obviously not. To say that would be vastly ignorant, seeing as I do not know the personality of every man on earth.
Shining Knights
2004-05-11, 07:10 PM
It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.
Obviously the main point in life is usually sex. It's what guarentees our genetics passing on. While that is a direct motivation for a lot of things, not all people pursue it in the same direction.
Thanatos
2004-05-11, 07:50 PM
Yeah, of course we want sex, but that doesn't mean it's the only thing we/I care about. I know for a fact my girlfriend and I won't have sex before we're married. If all I cared about was sex, I would not be with her seeing as how I won't get any. I compliment my girl everyday and she likes it. We've got a great relationship and just to throw this thread back on topic, she doesn't control me or try to. Hah.
Titusfied
2004-05-11, 08:00 PM
Man, I had a relationship like that before. I was all about it while in it, but thinking back on it makes me realize how patient I was. I honestly think that relationships with sex are more fulfilling, but then again, that is just my opinion, having had the better of both.
Go KA for quintuple posting.
And Grav's exactly right about the smart girls. (I'm guessing its the exact same for smart guys vs stupid guys.) That IS one thing I do like very much about being an artist. Artists want to be with other artists, ideally. And in that case, it's a general, level playing field for both sexes' mentality. So its fun, alotta fun.
I really don't see why waiting till then means anything....getting married dosen't make you love each other, its the result of love, same way should be with sex
badboy
2004-05-11, 09:51 PM
I hate when people say they have to wait to be married to have sex, that's just not right for ones body. And I hate it how some girls think sex is evil or something and won't go near it.
!King_Amazon!
2004-05-11, 10:02 PM
That's how youth are raised these days. Sex is wrong, bad, and Janet Jackson should be sued for showing a part of her body on television.
Just think about it, I speak the truth.
That's how youth are raised these days. Sex is wrong, bad, and Janet Jackson should be sued for showing a part of her body on television.
Just think about it, I speak the truth.
Yeah, that sure stops all the kids from screwing eh?
I don't think sex is evil. However from a moral standing point I do believe in abstaining from it until marriage. I can't impose my belief like this on other people and I haven't tried. However, while a lot of people couldn't give a rip if porn was on every channel, there are other people who would prefer it if sex was not pushed in their faces 24/7, like on things like shampoo commercials.
The Janet Jackson thing was wrong. I don't know why everyone made a huge deal out of it, really, but it was still breaking decency laws and therefore should have been fined. The point is, what place does that kind of stuff have at the Super Bowl? It's a sports event for goodness sake, not a strip show. Lots of people had their children watching the game too. I'm sure the parents were really happy about their kids subjected to somewhat demoralizing nudity when they were just expecting to watch some football.
!King_Amazon!
2004-05-11, 10:31 PM
That's exactly my point. What is so horribly wrong about a kid seeing a nipple? The kid isn't going to go blind, or go out and screw the first person of the opposite sex it sees. Sex and nudity are portrayed as evil things these days.
Ganga
2004-05-11, 11:51 PM
... sex is a big deal cuz of the religion here. My girl friend is from japan and she's very open about it, so is the people there. I mean what's the big deal of sex? oh if you fuck a girl you responsble for it? for what? sex with protection just a guy and a girl having fun, there's fucking no big deal of it what so fucking ever.
Oh ya, what's wrong with nipple, they shows them on public Tv at japan as far as I know, there's nothing wrong with it.
Chruser
2004-05-12, 02:19 AM
And you know this because you have experience in this field? Last I heard your dating on-line. Go date in real life, and get to know women. Women my age, all the same, and most likely the same when they grow up.
No, I have "experience in the field", so to speak. I'm not sure if I've just been "lucky" or not, but most of the generalizations you've used so far simply do not apply to most of the cases I've been in. Maybe you're the one who should get to know women before you voice your opinion?
That IS one thing I do like very much about being an artist. Artists want to be with other artists, ideally. And in that case, it's a general, level playing field for both sexes' mentality. So its fun, alotta fun.
Agreed. Artists do seem to make great exceptions to the generalizations in this thread for some strange reason. :)
... sex is a big deal cuz of the religion here. My girl friend is from japan and she's very open about it, so is the people there. I mean what's the big deal of sex? oh if you fuck a girl you responsble for it? for what? sex with protection just a guy and a girl having fun, there's fucking no big deal of it what so fucking ever.
Except, of course, for the fact that you can't get more than a 98% protection versus pregnancy. By saying this, I obviously assume sterilization is not part of your lives. So yeah, statistically, every 50th time you have sex with a girl, you'll get her pregnant. If you "only" use a condom, the protection rate plummets to 95%. Unless of course heinous sex is paramount.
Shining Knights
2004-05-12, 09:28 AM
It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.
Ganga
2004-05-12, 10:17 AM
95% with condom? I throught it's more like 99%.
Titusfied
2004-05-12, 10:34 AM
You're 15, had 1 girlfriend, and she ripped your fucking heart out. Hardly enough experience.
I have heard some scientists are working on birth control pills for *men*. And yes, japan is very much like that. It's a good thing, and a healthier society. America is full of whackos - mostly. :\
Know what's funny about the difference in sexuality in japan and america? 'America' has sex four times as much as 'Japan' does. Statistically speaking of course. Even though its forbidden and evil here, that's what makes them do it more. Just goes to show, nudity is nothing bad, nor is sex.
slaynish
2004-05-12, 03:37 PM
Vollstreckers girlfriend wants his nuts/and or/ marraige.. He isnt ready though ^_^
Ganga
2004-05-12, 03:55 PM
just like fucking alcohol... that stupid 21 year old to drink make stupid people want to drink more.
Sovereign
2004-05-12, 03:59 PM
Wtf are you talking about. He hasn't even posted in this thread..
I didn't say nudity or sex was bad. I'm just tired of seeing it flaunted in my face day after day for no good reason.
Ganga
2004-05-12, 04:28 PM
... Neko so you see nudity/sex day after day..? where do you live?
Chruser
2004-05-12, 04:31 PM
Maybe she was referring to porn?
Thanatos
2004-05-12, 05:19 PM
I really don't see why waiting till then means anything....getting married dosen't make you love each other, its the result of love, same way should be with sex
I have nothing against sex and I really couldn't give a hoot if I had sex with my girlfriend every day. She, on the other hand, is hella abstinent. She is very religious; she's just been raised that way. She will not have sex until she's married, that's just what the Bible has led her to believe is the ultimate truth. That doesn't bother me though, and I'm not saying the Bible is wrong. It's all just what we've been brought up with and what our beliefs are.
Maybe she was referring to porn?
Then that's her fault for looking at porn every day.
u guys r wittay lol
I was referring to advertisements. While racy ads might lead the regular, hulking, usually horned-up population to buy something based on the sex appeal in it's commercial, I find it distasteful. But hey, that's me against the world, so forget it.
Ganga
2004-05-12, 07:47 PM
Advertisements brought up now and then, not everyday, unless you watch tv everyday. I have no problem seeing tits on tv as how girls have no problem seeing guys naked (upper body) on tv, it's that we raise so it's ok for guy to be nake but not girl.
Shining Knights
2004-05-12, 08:01 PM
It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.
Don't go on ebay, they have naked chics trying to sell some products... sadly it works
slaynish
2004-05-12, 10:15 PM
LOLE I HAVE NEKED GERLS ON TOP OF ME ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLL THE TIMES IN THE DREAMS I HAVE THAT R WET LOLE! Y DO I GET WET IN ME PANTS AFTER ME WAKWES UP LOL
I don't know either... I thought only guys did it for ya
slaynish
2004-05-12, 10:19 PM
Mmee 2
!King_Amazon!
2004-05-13, 04:07 AM
I've never seen nudity in an american advertisement before, except maybe on the playboy channel, and if you're watching that you're asking for it.
There was a woman who was complaining because her son got a boner in the middle of the superbowl, and he didn't know what the fuck was wrong with himself, because his parents didn't think he needed to know about these things, so not only was he embarassed, but he was confused. She thinks this is Janet Jackson's fault.
The kid got a boner off of it? I don't beleive it, it is bs, I mean there are Victoria Secret comercials more sexier than that... did he get a boner off of them?
Titusfied
2004-05-13, 11:31 AM
He got a boner because he wanted to bone her. :D
Girls are crazy, but as long as you are open with them, they are not complicated what so ever. I'm more complicated than my new girlfriend. She gets pissed at me because I can get in a shitty mood for no good reason, just woke up on the wrong side of the bed sort of thing. She knows its just me though, and it comes with the territory.
I'm half mentally insane.
Oh no, we have a half mentally insane admin... fear :P
Jessifer
2004-05-13, 12:55 PM
IMHO, that sounds more like Male PMS. O.o
And in my own defense...All girls are not the same. I'd never try to control everything that my partner did.
Thanatos
2004-05-13, 02:07 PM
I've never seen nudity in an american advertisement before, except maybe on the playboy channel, and if you're watching that you're asking for it.
There was a woman who was complaining because her son got a boner in the middle of the superbowl, and he didn't know what the fuck was wrong with himself, because his parents didn't think he needed to know about these things, so not only was he embarassed, but he was confused. She thinks this is Janet Jackson's fault.
wtf.. Janet Jackson is butt ucking fugly.
badboy
2004-05-13, 07:49 PM
Janet Jackson reminds me of Michael Jackson, so just think of Michael Jackson with tits and walla.
Sovereign
2004-05-13, 11:52 PM
And a nose
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