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[Shining Knights]

It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

[Demosthenes]

heh...i think me and timmay have been through this 1

u get them back or get over them i guess...
keep talkin 2 em...stay close...hopefully theyll eventually turn around

[timmay1113]

welll..... one time while i was out of town, my girl friend went to a lakehouse with some of my friends, guys and girls, they all got drunk and she ends up getting naked with a girl.... what on earth do u say to that...... but anyways with your case has this person done it behind your back before?

[Shining Knights]

It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

[timmay1113]

ahh yes i guess, u cant ever have full trust in them again, its a good chance they will do it again if they did it once, it means they didnt truly love u, u will just have to move on, and yes i know IT REALLY SUCKS, but better to move on now wrather that getting hurt AGAIN later

[Sovereign]

Shinto there will be others in life. Others that are much better then she will ever be. She has shown her ability to cheat on you. Cheating is manipulating your emotions. Maybe she wasnt the right one for you after all.

Take it from me, i know how it feels to lose a girlfriend to another guy. It happened to me, and it hurt. Holy fuck it hurt. It drove me insain. Literally, i had mental breakdown after another. But i got thorugh it, with the help of kickass friends, and help from outside sources. You can do the same. Come on shinto, trust me when i say this, there WILL be others much bettter then dani, and others who WILL stay monogomous.

[Demosthenes]

bullshit it doesnt mean they dont truly love you. You mean 2 tell me when some1 gets drunk and ends up in bed with some1 else they dont love u? NO...they were just drunk. Yes it will be hard 2 trust them again but they could come aruond...talk 2 her...tell her how u feel

or if u want just move on

[timmay1113]

who said anything about drunkeness??

[Demosthenes]

im just throwin out an example

[timmay1113]

ahh i gotcha, but im not thinking that the person who cheated on shinto was drunk

[Sovereign]

You have a point mjordan, but she wasnt drunk....thats the problem. She did this to him while she was in the right state of mind.

[Eddie_Perez]

He's mixing your story up with Shinto's... Well, you can't give her too many chances... has she done anything like this in the past?

[Demosthenes]

but then cmon man...if a hot girl threw herself upon you and u were with some1 else it would be really hard not 2 do nething with the girl...

[timmay1113]

and that my friends IS just FUCKED up, but you could always see if she is truly sorry for what she did, cause she might truly care for u, maybe yall should just talk

[Demosthenes]

welll..... one time while i was out of town, my girl friend went to a lakehouse with some of my friends, guys and girls, they all got drunk and she ends up getting naked with a girl.... what on earth do u say to that......

i say the more the merrier...go join them

[Sovereign]

If she cared, she wouldnt have cheated in teh first place. I mean she could still care, but not care enough to continue a good, steady, monogomous relationship. Im gonna go eat ill be back ina few.

[Eddie_Perez]

Maybe it was a case of..............
































Date rape.

[timmay1113]

well that... would just be fucked up more... and shinto would have to kick some ass if that happened

[Demosthenes]

well...thats not exactly cheating then...

[timmay1113]

yeah but i doubt thats what happened... and we are straying from the point, i think.... that for things to turn out the best , even though there is going to be no good alternative u should end the relationship so she doesnt screw u over again

[Shining Knights]

It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

[timmay1113]

yeah.... out of all the painful things in life, girls can put the deepest wounds in you, its terrible, something we have to deal with i guess, but anyways... there are no words i can give u to to make u feel better, just maybe try and find love in another girl to forget the old, im sure the rest of this night will suck for u, but im gonna go to bed and i hope u get better after this, and quickly, good luck man

[Sovereign]

Back. Im pretty sure its not date rape. She cheated, not got raped. There would be hell to pay if she was raped. Besides, cheating doesnt always mean having sex, it could just be a kiss.

[Shining Knights]

It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

[Kuja]

The love of your life, cheats on you behind your back. What do you do...
Destroy their life. Not in a physical way, but psychologically. I cant say it will make you happy. But destroying them psychologically will bring you some satisfaction. It's better then nothing.

[Shining Knights]

It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

[Eddie_Perez]

Yeah, and all this "hacking" ability came from where?

[Shining Knights]

It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

[Kuja]

I was thinking more of longterm damage.

Start by destroying their trust toward each other. Make them always on stress find out their weakness.

Im sure you can dig many thing on them if you try. The plan is using their weakness to create more. Record them on recorder,video tape or something. Once you find correct weakness for one (that you can backup with proof) you will start to be in control of the situation. Then finding some on the other one will become much easier as you will most likely already be getting good at doing it. You will blackmail the one that you already know a weakness in betraying guy/girl that way you can get control on both.(Make sure you record that in some way). Then you will be able to find out almost everything.

Making them against each other might end up making them hate each other and break up. But you cant stop the game there can you ? It wouldnt be fun if you wrnt the one deciding where it stop. Be with only one at the time and make them do stuff they would be ashamed of by always pushing the button of what you already have. Make picture or film them.(they dont need to know if your filming them) More you will have stuff on them worst you can get them to do. Each time would be the same story. You would have more and more power over them and before they even realise it they will both be your slave to prevent shame to come upon them. After you gathered enought stuff: tape, pic, video of them render it public. With luck they might never recover.

Take note that it isnt everyone that would be able to do that. I dont know much about you. But im most likely sure that it is not in your nature to do these kind of things. So most likely you will need to change to perform this and this change will be permanent. Not many can come back to the way they were. Also this is a vague description of how it should work it's not a step by step guide. It's only some pointers.

[Eddie_Perez]

K, but your plan doesnt do anything to her... you have to mentally torture her by destroying her self-esteem and putting clorox in her drinking water... err, that would kill her... nvm. Uh, does she know you know she is cheating?


EDIT: Something tells me you hate someone Kuja?

[Raziel]

Whoa, whoa, whoa. Shinto, you're only 16? Damn, I thought you were older than that.

The love of your life, cheats on you behind your back. What do you do...

Keep in mind that you're not even a quarter of the way through your life yet and that there's a lot of time for even more depressing circumstances waiting just around the corner! Welcome to Raziel's colorful world of cynicism! Have some candy.

[Eddie_Perez]

Yes, so that means any bitch that breaks your heart you will go into a depression and ruin her life?

[Shining Knights]

It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

[Shining Knights]

It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

[Kuja]

EDIT: Something tells me you hate someone Kuja?

Nah, i more or less fell in love with destroying ppl life. Kinda the reason why im often inside. It's the only thing really preventing me from doing it.

[DaFrigginDoctah]

The love of your life, cheats on you behind your back. What do you do...
Be a man. Suck it up. Just say (aloud) "Fuck it." And move on. That's one of the great things about being a guy.

Oh oh! Call her a "Fucking little slut" when you break up with her. Tell her all she's good for is sex, and... Whatever else you can throw in. You'll feel so good after, you wont stop laughing. You'll be pumped.

[Shining Knights]

It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

[iSwearImNotDaz]

Shinto she probably dumped you because you're insecure and a dumb-ass

[Sovereign]

Hah, you should be the last one to call ANYONE a dumbass. And believe me tard, shinto isnt a moron. Go read around the forums a bit before you open your oversized clap-trap again.

[!King_Amazon!]

Stop begging for sympathy.

[J_iceman]

what you do is, dont worry about her anymore, just work out and when she sees you get bigger she brobably want to get back together, then it will be YOUR choice agaon; take her back or screw her and get a better one.

[Sovereign]

Personally, i think you can do better shinto. But oh well. I gotta go get ready for work. Laterz

[Chruser]

Maybe I missed this, but just how did you find out about all of this anyway, Shinto? Did she actually tell youshe cheated on you, or did you find out from someone else?

[Kuja`s #1]

Never had a girl I "loved" and I don't know if I will have one...

If I did, I might commit suicide.

[Eddie_Perez]

Pweeeeeeze!

[Shining Knights]

It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

[Demosthenes]

ehh...well...if she didnt tell u b4 then u do deserve better dude. I thought she like just str8 up told u. Its up 2 u though

[DaFrigginDoctah]

I had a talk with him last night, he's already over it and feeling a lot better. Always happy to help.

[Hades-Knight]

Heh.............


This girl that is a friend of my exand I had been flirting and stuff, i really like her but one of her friends likes me, i told her i like her and not her friend, we went out last week, she tells me she likes one of my friends.....I go like "WTF?" ok so Im gonna need you to make a choice....and shes like "I dont know, im confused"and has been like that since......ill call her tonight and see whats up

I would have already given up coz what she said, but i really like her :eek: im stupid like that........my friend doesnt even like her, he told her that he doesnt like her but she sitll likes him.....

Any advice on what i should do? i know its sad of me askign you , but oh well

[Demosthenes]

ok...plz use names because i am lost

[Grav]

Hmm, I honestly don't understand where these people are getting all this "crushed for life" and "want to commit suicide" feelings from. We've all been screwed over in a relationship. I guess I was never "in love" but I didn't have all these extreme emotions like thoughts of suicide or killing them when it was over. Seriously, you guys scare me just a little bit. I've always been a jolly guy, I can usually shrug things off. I like to get a little payback first :D (in a joking way) but.. I don't know why I'm typing this. *shrug*

[J_iceman]

thants the reason us guys should go for the older women :-P

[DaFrigginDoctah]

Heh.............


This girl that is a friend of my exand I had been flirting and stuff, i really like her but one of her friends likes me, i told her i like her and not her friend, we went out last week, she tells me she likes one of my friends.....I go like "WTF?" ok so Im gonna need you to make a choice....and shes like "I dont know, im confused"and has been like that since......ill call her tonight and see whats up

I would have already given up coz what she said, but i really like her :eek: im stupid like that........my friend doesnt even like her, he told her that he doesnt like her but she sitll likes him.....

Any advice on what i should do? i know its sad of me askign you , but oh well
Be a man and move on until she makes her mind up. Make sure she knows that. Say like "Well, I'm not going to sit around while you're trying to make your mind up, until you do I'll be seeing other people, but if you do choose me, I would be willing to call it off with them for you." Easy peasy, jep n' easy.

[Dan XIII]

Never had a girl I "loved" and I don't know if I will have one...

If I did, I might commit suicide.Don't commit suicide.

[RaZ]

The love of your life, cheats on you behind your back. What do you do...

that hurts man, ive never had it personally happen to me but im sorry that it had to happen to you and i know what you must be going through, but you have to show her that your fine without her.


oh and shinto how long did you go out with her?
and also people are saying about sex in here.. didnt you say in the past that your g/f wasnt planning on having sex til after marriage?

[DaMuffenManInd]

you dump her asap and dont look back no matter how much u want to or need to if she can do it once she can do it again and most likly will i mean can u ever truly trust her again ? its still up to you but i say no fuck it man u cant love some 1 who dosent love u it just dont work

[Shining Knights]

It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

[Sovereign]

Good job shinto. Show her whos in control here.

[timmay1113]

yeah... now make her do more for u in this round to make up for what she did to you

[Grav]

If nothing else, make sure to shove some bottles of 40 up in there so she gets really loose and worthless.

[Shining Knights]

It matters not whether you win or lose; what matters is whether I win or lose.

[Raziel]

I wouldn't do it, Shinto. Even if she never cheats on you again, you'll always be paranoid. Then she'll get overly defensive about your well-founded paranoia, and she'll start leading you to belive that maybe she is cheating on you. It will only end badly. Just walk away.

[J_iceman]

i agree.....isn't there another person you want to go out with?? her sister, her best friend?

[Kuja]

You really think if you forgive her she will have any respect left for you ? She will know that she can do it again.
If you stay with her it's gonna be nothing more then trouble.
Make out with her, have fun then kick her out.

[DaFrigginDoctah]

Find a different girl, and the other one you were telling me about, use her just for fun, dont get into a relationship with her. She scares me.